Ok so after our big break up that didn’t even last a day we was back arguing again yesterday and he was ready to leave all over a damn cookie. Yes. A cookie. It went a little something like this.
The boyfriend gets up to go get some cookies out of the kitchen and starts to eat on them. They those old expensive ass Pepperidge cookies that have only a few in the pack. Supposedly they his favorites but this the first I ever seen him eat one in 2 years??
Me: Can I have one? Well wait how many you have left in there?
The bf: Yes you can one.. (proceeded to give me one) ..I don’t know how many left in here.
Me:How many you have left?
The bf: Three.
Me: Oh okay No sorry I changed my mind I don’t want any.
The bf: Girl, here. Take this cookie.
Me: No I don’t want one.
The bf: Why you ask then?
Me: Because . I did want one because I saw you with it but I changed my mind because you only have 3 left.
The bf: I don’t care if I only have one left. I don’t mind sharing with you.
Me: I know. I just don’t want it now.
The bf: Damn you make me not even want to eat it anymore (proceeds to get up and put the cookies away)
Me: ( I’m upset) Just because I changed my mind about wanting a cookie does not mean that should stop you from enjoying your cookies and milk.
The bf: I just don’t want it anymore.
After that we was watching tv but I didn’t even want to watch it anymore because he had a shitty ass attitude looking all pissed all because I changed my mind about a damn cookie. And I was mad because he put the freakin cookies away just because I changed my mind and didn’t want any. I was like what tha hell? He started talking about how I always put him before me and he don’t like that. Any other girl would have been like give me a cookie or whatever but I am always thinking about him and being extra considerate of him and his feelings like me not wanting to eat all his cookies.
WHAT THAT HELL? SOO YOU MAD BECAUSE YOU HAVE A GIRL THAT IS CONSIDERATE NOW???
Ummmkay. He told me he like the fact that I am giving but I am too giving sometimes that it makes him mad. It was stupid and petty. I changed my mind this is not a reason to argue because I changed my mind. So we was going back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. Then he got up and was like you know what this is not going to change. We are going to continue to argue and started getting his stuff to leave. He still had his stuff in the Tundra from a few days ago that he did not bring in the house so basically he was just grabbing a few things he had in here to leave.
I wasn’t saying shit I was trying to be all hard about the situation like nigga wanna get mad about a fucking cookie and leave let him go then lol! He tore up the letter I wrote like did you even mean this shit??? I was like I meant it at that time lol. So he left out the door and I was looking out the peep hole at him to see if he was really going and I saw him place his stuff like next to my door and walk off . So I go oustide talking shit “you wanna leave and break up with me fine don’t be leaving your shit by my door” It was crazy. Crazy. Crazy. Crazy.
He ended up coming in the house tho and we had make up sex that night. It was real good too. Like better than it has been in a looong while.
I don’t know why we are arguing soo fucking much. I think maybe I have gotten in the habit of picking fights with him and its rubbed off on him and he has started to do that to me now. I was mad tho because I was like damn can’t a girl change her mind.
He is right about one thing I do always put him before me. I don’t know why I will do that in relationships. If we only have one thing left to eat in the house I will save that for him and the man is supposed to look out for the woman but I be looking out for my man real tough. I am very nurturing but I shouldn’t ever put no man above me. I need to work on that.
But yea we almost broke up over some damn cookie this time.
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ok first thing is i need yall not to be fighting all heavy over a dman cookie!!! But thats how men are they take that consideration for granted. Like who complains because some cares??? why type of shit is that?? Bull shit is what it is
Chris I’m mad about them damn cookies too.lolololol.that sounds EXACTLY like something my girl would do.I can’t even enjoy my cookies cause I know you want some but being stubborn.and the fact she would say she changed her mind make her seem so ditzy to me.who does that? Ughhhhhh she so infuriating sometimes.look at me getting all frustrated on your blog
I told the boyfriend about your comment nodaysoff he was happy to see someone relate to his pain lol.